The Simple Things

Taking time to live well
  • Home
  • Subscribe
  • SHOP
  • Newsletter
  • About
  • Work with us
  • Home
  • Subscribe
  • SHOP
  • Newsletter
  • About
  • Work with us

Blog

Taking Time to Live Well

  • All
  • Chalkboard
  • Christmas
  • Competition
  • could do
  • Eating
  • Escape
  • Escaping
  • Fresh
  • Fun
  • gardening
  • Gathered
  • Gathering
  • Growing
  • Haikus
  • Interview
  • Living
  • Looking back
  • Magazine
  • magical creatures
  • Making
  • Miscellany
  • My Neighbourhood
  • Nature
  • Nest
  • Nesting
  • outing
  • playlist
  • Reader event
  • Reader offer
  • Shop
  • Sponsored post
  • Sunday Best
  • Think
  • Uncategorized
  • Wellbeing
  • Wisdom

Illustration by Claire Harrup

Wellbeing | Slowing Down

Iona Bower March 19, 2024

There are plenty of lessons we can learn from nature, but one of the most important is that nature is never in a rush

There’s a valuable lesson for most of us here as we hurry around from one task to another, rarely taking time to pause and reflect. We’re increasingly impatient, seeking instant gratification. We’ve lost the ability to be bored, to idle away an afternoon feels wasteful and indulgent.

Yet this downtime is part of our cycle just as it is in the natural world. We too need time to germinate, grow and produce, followed by fallow periods of rest and rejuvenation. Often the expectation is that we spend most or all our time in the productive stage, but if we don’t take time to find new inspiration and let our minds wander, we soon end up burnt out or stuck in a creative rut.

Neuroscientists now understand what happens in our brain when we stop and do nothing and have found that this is when creative and intuitive thinking happens. Rather than filling your time with more stuff to do and rushing to finish so you can move on to the next thing, allow yourself some time to do nothing and let your mind wander. Often you’ll find that your best ideas or solutions spring into your conscious mind when daydreaming.

Lie down on a rug and look at the sky for a while and see what thoughts arise. Try to be patient and let events in your life take their natural course as they do in nature. Plant some seeds and observe how with daily watering and sunlight they slowly grow into seedlings and plants producing fruit, vegetables or flowers. Slow down and observe, listen, reflect, and ponder. In the words of Ralph Waldo Emerson, ‘Adopt the pace of nature: her secret is patience.’

The words above are an extract from our wellbeing editor’s new book Just Add Nature by
Rebecca Frank (National Trust Books, out 11 April).

Buy this month's The Simple Things - buy, download or subscribe

More ways to go slow…

Featured
Wellbeing nature never in a rush.jpg
Mar 19, 2024
Wellbeing | Slowing Down
Mar 19, 2024
Mar 19, 2024
Apr 24, 2020
Long weekend compendium
Apr 24, 2020
Apr 24, 2020
Vermeer Rjykmuseum (sp).jpg
Mar 28, 2020
Art tours | virtually Vermeer
Mar 28, 2020
Mar 28, 2020

More from our blog…

Featured
Water Boatman.jpg
May 24, 2025
Nature | Pond-Dipping for Grown-ups
May 24, 2025
May 24, 2025
RS2832_iStock-1278591330.jpg
May 23, 2025
Sponsored Post | Get your family active with Youth Sport Trust
May 23, 2025
May 23, 2025
Screenshot 2025-05-21 at 08.52.06.png
May 21, 2025
Playlist | Great Heights
May 21, 2025
May 21, 2025
In Wellbeing Tags issue 141, slow, slow living, wellbeing, nature
Comment
Photography: Jonathan Cherry

Photography: Jonathan Cherry

Ingredients for a Slow Sunday

Iona Bower March 15, 2020

The best Sundays are those just spent just pottering in the garden or playing board games while the roast cooks. In our March issue, we’ve put together a Low and Slow menu that will help you do just that. Here are a few more ingredients we think you need to enjoy a Super Slow Sunday…


  1. ALL the Sunday papers. Not just the one you normally buy; also get the one with the ridiculous headlines to laugh at and the one with the good crossword. We’re doing this properly.

  2. A decent coffee and a cafetiere. Sunday isn’t slow enough if you have to stand up to refill your mug. A decent-sized cafetiere stationed near you will do it. Don’t put the milk back in the fridge thanks, just leave it there. Yes, you can leave those biscuits, too.

  3. An enthusiastic dog. Because Sunday needs a good walk at some point, also, and when you get home, Sunday needs something warm to lie on your feet. If you don’t have a dog, set out in the woods wielding a stick as if you do own a dog, and put some bed socks on when you get home for a similar, but less hairy, effect. 

  4. A gin and tonic (or whatever your tipple is) for the prepping stage of lunch. Peeling spuds takes on a rather festive feel when you have something cold and fizzy in your hand.

  5. A good board game for while the lunch is in the oven, whether it’s an old favourite or one you got for Christmas and haven’t played yet. Something you can get ridiculously invested in and over-competitive about is ideal.

  6. Enough food to do leftovers too. We all know the best part of a Sunday roast is the secret scoffing of the cold potatoes out of the fridge at 6pm. If you’ve got enough leftovers to do Monday lunch too, so much the better, and it will bring a bit of weekend joy to your working day. 

  7. A costume drama on telly. Should be watched in your dressing gown with a cup of tea. If there’s nothing good on, dig out an old box set of the BBC’s Pride and Prejudice. 

You can find our menu for Low Slow Sundays in our March issue, on sale now.

Buy this month's The Simple Things - buy, download or subscribe


More from our March issue…

Featured
Gudrun.jpg
Feb 12, 2021
Competition | win a stylish shopping spree
Feb 12, 2021
Feb 12, 2021
Veg Box Music.jpg
Mar 27, 2020
Make | parsnip panpipes (yes, really)
Mar 27, 2020
Mar 27, 2020
Simnel Cake Sam A Harris, Fitzbillies.jpg
Mar 21, 2020
Cake facts | Simnel cake
Mar 21, 2020
Mar 21, 2020

More slowspiration…

Featured
Wellbeing nature never in a rush.jpg
Mar 19, 2024
Wellbeing | Slowing Down
Mar 19, 2024
Mar 19, 2024
Apr 24, 2020
Long weekend compendium
Apr 24, 2020
Apr 24, 2020
Vermeer Rjykmuseum (sp).jpg
Mar 28, 2020
Art tours | virtually Vermeer
Mar 28, 2020
Mar 28, 2020

.

In Nest Tags issue 93, March, slow, slow food, slow living
Comment
Playlist slow.JPG

Playlist | Songs to help you slow down

Iona Bower July 18, 2019

DJ: Clare Gogerty; Illustration: Shutterstock

Slow down, you move too fast…

Listen at thesimplethings.com/blog/slowdownplaylist

More of our playlists…

Featured
Screenshot 2025-05-21 at 08.52.06.png
May 21, 2025
Playlist | Great Heights
May 21, 2025
May 21, 2025
May playlist.png
Apr 16, 2025
Playlist | The long weekend
Apr 16, 2025
Apr 16, 2025
Screenshot 2025-03-13 at 11.41.55.png
Mar 19, 2025
Playlist | Jaunty tunes
Mar 19, 2025
Mar 19, 2025

More from our August issue…

Featured
BACK COVER.jpg
Aug 22, 2019
August | a final thought
Aug 22, 2019
Aug 22, 2019
TheWayHome, MarkBoyle.jpg
Aug 17, 2019
Lost arts | writing a nice, newsy letter
Aug 17, 2019
Aug 17, 2019
Earth's Crust Castle douglas Europe’s Best Bakeries by Sarah Gu.jpg
Aug 14, 2019
Nostalgia | Forgotten bakery goods
Aug 14, 2019
Aug 14, 2019
Tags August, issue 86, playlist, songs, slow, slowliving, slow living
Comment

Escape: Caravan of love

Lottie Storey April 4, 2016

See, do, stay, love the UK. This month: slow living in a showman's wagon in Scotland. Words and photography by Sarah-Lou Francis.

Pilot-Panther-SarahLouFrancis1-Detail-Bed.png Pilot-Panther-SarahLouFrancis11-View-from-Walk.png Pilot-Panther-SarahLouFrancis2-Kitchen-Detail.png Pilot-Panther-SarahLouFrancis9-Highland-Cow.png Pilot-Panther-SarahLouFrancis-View.png

Our new series comes from online UK travel guide This is Your Kingdom, whose handpicked contributors explore favourite places, special finds and great goings on.

You can read about one we love each month in The Simple Things - turn to page 74 of the April issue for more of this Scottish showman's wagon adventure - and plenty of others at thisisyourkingdom.co.uk.

Sarah-Lou Francis is a contributor to thisisyourkingdom.co.uk. She is a lifestyle and portrait visual storyteller, blogs at lapinblu.com and shares stories from and behind the blog on Instagram as @lapinblu. 

 

 

 

Read more:

From the April issue

Escape posts

Spring posts

In Escape Tags issue 46, april, this is your kingdom, scotland, slow living, slow holidays
Comment
Featured
  Buy ,  download  or  subscribe   See the sample of our latest issue  here   Buy a copy of our latest anthology:  A Year of Celebrations   Buy a copy of  Flourish 2 , our wellbeing bookazine  Listen to  our podcast  - Small Ways to Live Well
Feb 27, 2025
Feb 27, 2025

Buy, download or subscribe

See the sample of our latest issue here

Buy a copy of our latest anthology: A Year of Celebrations

Buy a copy of Flourish 2, our wellbeing bookazine

Listen to our podcast - Small Ways to Live Well

Feb 27, 2025
Join our Newsletter
Name
Email *

We respect your privacy and won't share your data.

email marketing by activecampaign
facebook-unauth twitter pinterest spotify instagram
  • Subscriber Login
  • Stockists
  • Advertise
  • Contact

The Simple Things is published by Iceberg Press

The Simple Things

Taking time to live well

We celebrate slowing down, enjoying what you have, making the most of where you live, enjoying the company of of friends and family, and feeding them well. We like to grow some of our own vegetables, visit local markets, rummage for vintage finds, and decorate our home with the plunder. We love being outdoors and enjoy the satisfaction that comes with a job well done.

facebook-unauth twitter pinterest spotify instagram